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Existential Threat to Many Families – Dispossessed by Bureaucracy and Ignorance: Caregiving Parents in the Citizen’s Income System


Melanie is a trained payroll accountant, a single mother of an autistic son, and has depended on Germany’s citizen’s income (Bürgergeld) for more than seven years. In an open podcast conversation with Nancy from “Rollicoaster,” she candidly describes how caring for a disabled child is not treated as a contribution, but rather as a descent into poverty and dependency.


Instead of recognition and support, she experiences a system of harassment, control, and humiliation—created and left fundamentally unreformed for decades by the CDU, SPD, Greens, FDP, and all other established political parties.

From Young Carer to Caregiving Mother: A Lifelong Pattern of Overload

Melanie has known the system since childhood. As a teenager, she cared for her mother, who suffered from multiple sclerosis, entirely on her own—as a “young carer.” Despite this, she completed her Abitur, finished vocational training, and worked for years in payroll accounting. Numbers and social law fascinated her. Then came her second son’s autism diagnosis, a separation, and her entry into the Hartz IV/citizen’s income system.

As a married mother, it was socially acceptable for her not to work or to work only part-time. As a single mother, she was suddenly labeled “lazy” and a burden on the state—even though she was performing exactly the same caregiving work, now while carrying all the administrative and emotional burdens alone.

€563 vs. €19,000: The Absurd Calculation

Melanie lays out the numbers: If she were unable to provide care, her caregiving and parenting work would cost the state approximately **€19,000 per month** (according to a specialist at the youth welfare office). She herself receives €563 in citizen’s income. Over the years, her lost earnings add up to between €750,000 and well over one million euros—during a phase of life when others are accumulating pension credits and building wealth. Providing care at the beginning of one's working life almost inevitably leads to poverty in old age. The system fails to recognize this contribution to the economy. Family caregivers are not a cost factor; they are the backbone of society—without vacations, evenings off, or uninterrupted nights.

Daily Life in a “Permanent Lockdown”: Travel Restrictions, Appointment Stress, and Total Transparency

Life on citizen’s income means total external control:
  • Freedom to travel? Hardly. Melanie is allowed to leave the local area (“Nahbereich”—close enough to appear at the job center immediately if required) for only 21 days per year—and only with prior approval. She must report back the day after returning. Weekends and public holidays count in full. On one occasion, the job center effectively prevented her from visiting her mother’s grave on the tenth anniversary of her death simply by failing to process her application.
  • Constant threat of sanctions. Appointments are scheduled at impossible times (8 a.m., school dismissal, etc.). There is no simple way to cancel, and no direct personal contact information is provided. Missing an appointment can result in cuts to one’s subsistence benefits.
  • No privacy whatsoever. All bank statements must be submitted, with very limited ability to redact information. Recipients become “transparent citizens”—a collection of sensitive data concerning the entire household is held by government offices. As she describes it: “Like going to bed every night with the door wide open.”

    The system is designed around a childless single person who is available 24/7. Single parents and family caregivers do not fit into that mold—and are simply out of luck. Individual decisions depend heavily on arbitrariness and the “chemistry” between claimant and caseworker.

    The Planned “Reform”: An Attack on Mothers and Caregiving Families

    Particularly alarming are the upcoming changes (merging housing benefits with citizen’s income, eliminating advance child-support payments, and introducing a full-time work requirement from a child’s first birthday onward). Families with children requiring care will be hit especially hard: there will no longer be any realistic option for one parent to remain at home. Both parents must make themselves available to the labor market—or fall through the cracks. Care work continues to be ignored. Melanie warns that these changes are steering many families toward an existential crisis.

    Responsibility of the Established Parties

    This bureaucratic monster was not built by aliens. The basic structures of Hartz IV, citizen’s income, and the current “reforms” all bear the fingerprints of the CDU/CSU, SPD, Greens, and FDP across successive coalition governments. Instead of radically simplifying the system, creating incentives, recognizing caregiving work, and restricting access to the welfare state for non-contributors, policymakers have merely renamed programs, added more regulations, and poured billions into an ever-expanding apparatus of control. The result: hardworking, qualified Germans like Melanie are kept dependent, stripped of their dignity, and pushed toward poverty in old age.

    Melanie and tens of thousands of other caregiving parents are not supplicants. They perform work that keeps the welfare state functioning in the first place. The state repays them with humiliation and a system that systematically disadvantages them.

    It is high time for a genuine fresh start: a legal distinction between caregivers and those fully available for employment, real recognition of caregiving work, a massive reduction in bureaucracy, and honesty toward citizens. As long as the established parties continue on their current course, this country will keep producing more and more frustrated, burned-out, and effectively dispossessed Melanies.

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